We all spend a lot of time and effort worrying about what matters.
We may call it different things.
We may call it being relevant.
We may call it “finding ourselves”.
Life is hard.
Anyone who tells you differently is either lying, insane or trying to get something from you.
Things don’t often go the way we think they should. Or maybe we just pay more attention to the bad things.
We were never promised by anyone that is trustworthy that we would have perfect, pain free, tragedy free guiltless lives.
Those preachers who say that this is not true are either the worst liars or they have never read the gospels. Probably some of both.
So, what does matter?
Money. It comes and goes. When we die what good is it?
Family. You may not have a family as we think of it but there is a family.
Love. Hopefully we all have had someone who has loved us.
Last night I read the Beatitudes in Matthew.
Start at the beginning but if you are impatient start at chapter 5.
Don’t read it as though it is abstract or for some future date but as what Jesus was teaching us then and right now.
All those we love.
All those we hate.
I hear a lot of vitriolic talk today about the president and the government. I don’t agree with a lot or even most of what is going on. But, we are told to love our enemies and pray for them.
Those who are close to you.
Those who are not.
Those who have passed on.
Those who are estranged.
Those who hate you.
Tomorrow has enough problems of its own. Let’s deal with what is right in front of us and know what is truly important.
We cannot control what other people think or do. We can control what we think and do (sometimes).
Love like there is no tomorrow.
Laugh like you mean it.
Cry and be cleansed not defeated.
Be happy in spite of all the things and people that say not to be. Not stupidly as the prosperity preachers tell it but just because you can.
Do something sacrificial today. Or don’t and don’t feel guilty about it.
Tell someone that you love them and mean it. Or don’t and don’t feel guilty about it.
So? What matters?
I may be bankrupt in a few weeks.
My loved ones may be sick or hurt or hurting.
Love. Love. Love.
1For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:
2a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;3 a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; 4a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; 5 a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; 6a time to seek, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;7a time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; 8a time to love, and a time to hate; a time for war, and a time for peace.
As I write this my sister-in-law who I have known all of her life and is one of my favorite relatives is dying in the hospital with acute leukemia.
My wife, understandably, is extremely upset.
This young woman (early 50’s) has already survived a bout with breast cancer a couple of years ago only to be stricken again by this terrible disease.
As I thought about this tonight I remembered reading somewhere that it is God Who is in charge of the times and the seasons of our lives. I think on the internetmonk site but in a different context.
My sister-in-law is in His hands and has been since before the beginning of time.
It is hard for us to understand and accept but accept we must.
I don’t mean to not fight and try everything possible but when all is done and the science is insufficient then it is time to let go and seek peace.
She is in pain and suffers. If this suffering is to no point then I pray that it will end. Soon.